Born to Dance

Way before I ever tried on my first pair of ballet slippers, I dreamed of being a ballet dancer. I longed for the opportunity to stand at the barre to do my plies` and tendus and grand battements. Because my mother was a single working mom, and my grandmother did not drive, ballet lessons were not on my schedule. Funny, how when my mom wanted me to take guitar lessons, she found the time to make it happen. Her love for playing stringed instruments translated to living vicariously through me. Nevertheless, due to circumstances beyond my control, I did not begin to realize my elusive dream until I got my driver’s license and headed straight to my already chosen dance studio to begin the journey.

Now many years later, forty-five to be exact, I still feel as if I was born to dance. I’m not too intimidated to take class with some students fifty years younger than myself! In fact, I have found them to be sweet, insecure, and allowing me an opportunity to encourage and cheer them on. Thankfully, there were a few ladies who approximated my age during this summer intensive. Even with more than eight years of training, I still sickle my feet sometimes, and have difficulty staying on the music. But do I love the art, the discipline, the rigor of still taking class? Yes! There is nothing that lifts my spirits, as well as my core, than an hour and half session at the barre, and ultimately the “center”.

For anyone who has ever dreamed of dancing, desired to dance, or even has danced, however long ago, I can testify that it is still an endeavor worth pursuing. Regardless of age, or what limitations may be perceived, there is always something to apprehend in ballet. Now before donning the tutu, at least in your mind, there are some things to consider before embarking on the venture.

Finding the right instructor is extremely important and sometimes requires some trial and error. However, when you find that one special teacher, it is a golden moment. I am grateful to still have “the one” after not taking class with her for twenty years. Determining if their philosophy aligns with your goals, whether or not their level of patience matches your ability, and feeling inspired to return class after class are indicators that you have found a good fit.

So reawaken your dream, dust off your slippers, or as in my case, buy new ones, and get ready for an uplifting opportunity to have your spirits soar. Oh, and maybe get something to rub into your sore muscles as well!